Seems to me like the bottom two are not really disagreements. For the second to last, if they gave you terms, you'd invest, right?
For the last, you presumably aren't deciding whether to meet with them based on the deck; it's just nice to be able to review it so your mind is prepared.
You're right on both counts. On the first point, I was trying to say that there are legitimate reasons to wait for a lead, and waiting for one is not always a matter of vacillating or stalling.
For the last, you presumably aren't deciding whether to meet with them based on the deck; it's just nice to be able to review it so your mind is prepared.