Making attributes and properties symmetric to one another would be difficult for the existing DOM API: methods like `addEventListener` are (prototype) properties on individual DOM elements, but would be nonsensical string attributes. Making your idea concrete:
// our document is like:
// <foo bar="asdf">
let foo = document.querySelector('foo');
console.log('bar', foo.bar); // cool, prints asdf
foo.bar = 'nice'; // <foo> element is now <foo bar="nice">
foo.addEventListener('some-event', e => console.log(e)); // wait, what?
So DOM element methods would instead be free functions like:
HTMLElement.addEventListener(foo, 'some-event', e => console.log(e));
It's a matter of taste, but I for one appreciate having object method calls in JavaScript.