I really like the TLDRs for each section in the table of contents. Pretty neat idea. Maybe I don't read enough, but I haven't seen this in a lot of books.
Common in some older books, and modern books in certain fields. Some (philosophy is where I've see this quite a bit) will instead put from a paragraph up to a couple pages describing the topics a chapter/"book" covers at the beginning of the chapter, which allows for a little more space than cramming it into a TOC. Helps with "OK I know that was in here somewhere but which chapter was it..."
Hmmmm.... needs icons. My favorite patterns books (which seem more exhaustively researched) have icons used in diagrams. Makes things more 'real' somehow....
This article is about psychological patterns related to task management and productivity. The book you linked to seems about software messaging system design.
Apparently ues, because the OP gave exactly the same answer: he was talking about "pattern books" in general, and apart from this pdf and the original Alexander's book the absolute majority of "pattern books" (and articles) is about IT themes.
Should be the kind of thing that is in new hire orientations and onboarding training (especially for new grad hires) but basically never is